Like most of my blog ideas, this one hit me in the shower, that inconvenient creative space where inspiration strikes and I have nothing to write with. Again, I had to trust my questionable memory long enough to dry off and frantically type into my phone's notes app before the thought disappeared. So here I am, putting into words what many of us think, but hesitate to say out loud. After writing my first article for InHabit Magazine in 2024, something unexpected happened. Th